Illustration – doing more: Take a bucket and have a volunteer fill the bowl with large pebbles until it is full. Ask, can we fit anymore in. (Answer no.) Then have a volunteer fill the gaps with small pebbles until the bucket is full once again. Ask, can we fit anymore in. (Answer no.) Then have a volunteer fill the gaps with sand until the bucket is full to overflowing. Ask, can we fit anymore in. (Answer no.) Then have a volunteer fill the bucket with water until it is full. Now it’s full. Finally throw in a cup of coffee… “My wife says there is always room for coffee with a friend.”